Tuesday was one of those days when we are reminded of just how difficult it is to be an international couple with families on two continents. We got a call in the late morning from Johan's parents to let us know that Bestemor (Johan's Grandma) had passed away earlier that morning. It was especially tough because just five months earlier in November Bestefar (Grandpa) passed away. It is times like this that we really wish we could be in Denmark with family. It is strange to think that when we go back to Denmark this summer - both of Johan's grandparents will not be there. Because we are so far away it can become easy to deny the fact that they are no longer with us.
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| Hygge kaffe med Bestemor og Bestefar |
Since we can't be there for the funeral, Johan and I decided it would be a good idea to do something in memory of Bestemor and Bestefar. I tried to talk Johan into getting a dog, because Bestefar really liked animals...But I couldn't sell Johan on that idea. So instead we decided to plant a tree in their memory. We are both so grateful for the many memories that they have given us...After all, our first kiss was at their house! I know that in talking with Johan he has so many wonderful memories of growing up with his grandparents close by. We will miss them, but are encouraged to know that just like the new tree will foster and grow, so will we continue to foster and grow the memories and lessons that they have taught us.
It's a small tree, but we know that it will grow to be come something strong and beautiful. A great reminder of the strong memories and beautiful heritage that Bestemor and Bestefar have left us with.
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